I have posted about some of these issues before in more detail but never all in one go if you recognise any details. My partner is my best friend and we have a great time just spending time together and ignore the long term practicalities which is why I am feeling torn. There are so many issues that are bothering me and I have brought up before but he's either did nothing about them or has tried for a couple weeks and back to usual after. So he is aware of all this before I get into it, please don't shame me but I just need to hear it from others that this it total bullsh*t.
First issue is we live in a house that I hate for multiple reasons and he has flat out said he's never moving again and I have to see the long term potential. The location is not what I want on top of other problems that require loads on money. He also doesn't help out with any daily housework which is left all to me or will reluctantly help on occasion when told specifically whats needing done. Secondly he has had bad personal hygiene since he started working from home and a shower every 3 days is the norm which he doesn't see any issue with and also sleeps naked - he improved on this but has reverted. Thirdly he stays up gaming til all hours so is on a complete opposite schedule to me on weekends where he wants to sleep in and be lazy. Lastly he smokes weed, I have asked him to cut back and smoke outside but he continues to smoke in one room of the house and all day long on weekends if no plans.
He does have redeeming qualities obviously why I'm still here but I feel like he doesn't think any of its an issue and says stuff like he's a great partner etc. literally don't know what to do now other than leave, I feel like I have a teenager. I know I sound horrible about someone I love but am fed up.