I recently found out a friend of mine has been hooking up with a guy I had also hooked up with in the past. I am over this guy as it was a while ago and he didn't treat me that well at all. We did end on amicable terms as we have mutual friends but rarely see or speak to each other
However my friend asked me if when I was with him, if had ever told me if I was his type. This threw me a bit as even though we had both been very flirty early on and were both clearly really attracted to each other, and said we would always check each other out prior to getting with each other. We never really confirmed to each other that I was his type and he was mine, i think i just assumed that it was a given that we were each others ‘type’ because of our connection.
My friend then said that the guy said to her a few times that she was his ‘type’ he normally went for and she just wanted to see if it was a line he used normally on girls.
I did think this was a odd thing to say but didn't really question it, but do wonder if she is trying to say that he wasn't that into me if he didn't say i was his type. But it did make me question why she wanted to know
I was just wondering what others thought or if saying if your someones type is an indication of how into them you are, I personally tend to assume if someone is flirting/hooking up with you then you are their type of person they go for and theres no doubt.