Has anyone else cut a person/people out of their life and feel so much better?
I cut out a few of my aunts and uncles due to their relationship with my abuser and it was hard. I was met with hostility and tears and guilt tripping and arguments and accusations of breaking the family because I spoke out. It has strained relationships with other family members too but I’ve worked through all this over the past few years and I sat the other day and thought wow I’m genuinely ok. I’m relieved to have these people out of my life. My triggers are gone and I have a circle of lovely people who bring me happiness.
just posting to see if anyone has similar stories or even if anyone else is struggling with putting in boundaries or is on the receiving end of guilt tripping etc, just to give a little inspiration to persevere because it DOES get better even if the process takes years