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Relationship timing/would you wait

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upsidedownyoureturningme · 13/10/2024 09:22

I recently met someone online who was a great match. He told me I was his perfect match, I ticked all his boxes and that I was perfect. We had lots in common & are from the same country etc. He said he felt instinctively that we were going to be together because we felt so comfortable in each others company. He is family orientated and out great effort into planning our dates and has done chivalrous things like drive miles to pick me up after a work event and drive me home we've had 6 dates. He has a day job and is also a writer. However, the timing of us meeting is a little curious before meeting each other we had both had dates with other people as he initially thought I wasn't interested in him. He had met someone incredibly wealthy & he was curious about that lifestyle from a writers perspective. He thinks that further done the line we'll be together, that he has a premonition and conviction for that and that it's just a bit jigsawy at the moment. I am therefore meeting other people and moving on but can't quite forget the potential of him and I. He is such a nice guy it's hard to think he didn't have some positive intentions. Question is should I be open to contact with him in the future or just put it down to experience!...

OP posts:
saypleasepls · 13/10/2024 09:23

All very weird

All parties involved

saypleasepls · 13/10/2024 09:24

less than 2 weeks ago you started a thread about whether to stay with your partner for the sake of the children 🙄

upsidedownyoureturningme · 13/10/2024 09:25

saypleasepls · 13/10/2024 09:24

less than 2 weeks ago you started a thread about whether to stay with your partner for the sake of the children 🙄

That was 2 years ago and we have separated (we weren't married).

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upsidedownyoureturningme · 13/10/2024 09:28

I was responding to someone else's thread it isn't my own story. In that thread I very clearly state that I have left my own partner. Please do get your facts straight before getting accusatory.

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TipsyJoker · 13/10/2024 09:32

So basically this guy has put you on the back burner because he’s met a rich women and he’s with her for her money? Yeah, he’s not chivalrous at all! He’s love bombed you. I wouldn’t touch him with a barge pole! Run!

FetchezLaVache · 13/10/2024 09:32

It's very clearly a different OP in that other thread.

Anyway @upsidedownyoureturningme (thanks SO much for the earworm!), he sounds best avoided. He's a love-bombing future faker and nothing good can come of pursuing this relationship, esp. as you have fairly young children.

saypleasepls · 13/10/2024 09:32

apologies but you do have a few threads about past new relationships since your split

maybe best to just enjoy being single for a bit

this one… with his premonitions…. sounds like a fruitcake

BeRoseScroller · 13/10/2024 09:34

No I really would leave this one hun. Been there in slightly different circumstances and guys like this know all the right things to say but it’s different in reality x

Seaoftroubles · 13/10/2024 09:42

Love bombed you for 6 dates then said he was pursuing a relationship with a wealthy woman as research for his scribblings? Sorry, but he sounds a fantasist and has future faker written over him... please dump, block and move on, in fact run!

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