So no judgement please. Im a single mum of 4 and I have to see my ex unfortunately as I work Monday to Thursday and start work early - so he has to come and take the kids to school. We’ve been split up 5 years now (my decision) but it took me 3 years just to get him to move out of my house. I don’t expect anything different from him as he will never change (he’s 50 and I’m 43) but he acts like a child.
moans saying this isn’t his responsibility to get the kids to school - he didn’t ask for it. Tells me me working is a nightmare for him and I should quit my job. Never does anything for or with the kids and if I ask him to he acts like a teenager and moans saying why me. Stays over at mine without asking me, invites his dad round to my house without asking me, tells me he wants to get back with me or makes inappropriate comments. Took money out of my purse without me knowing( he owes over 2k in maintenance but that’s another story). The kids can’t go to his as he has a single room in a shared house due to being 26k in debt so can’t get his own place. Think I just needed a moan. Seriously considering getting a babysitter if I can afford it to do the school run so I wouldn’t have to see him. Puts his washing in my machine but he has one at his. The kids I’m afraid to say are always asking for a new dad which breaks my heart. Anyone else in a similar situation? X