Really struggling with how to approach this situation with my DH. Bit of background we are in our early 30s with a 1 yo DS. I have recently found out I am pregnant and don’t know how to approach it with my husband. We are currently paying down a large amount of CC debt and hadn’t even considered another child until we could afford for me to have maternity leave. I really don’t want to continue the pregnancy and had a terrible time PP and don’t know if I could go through it again with a toddler as my husband works long shifts and a 3 hour commute means a lot would be left to me. I feel if I tell him he will guilt me in to going through with the pregnancy and I will end up resenting him or I will convince him to end the pregnancy and he will resent me. Part of me wants to book a termination without him knowing but I know that is an awful idea as we do not keep things from each other and are always open. I just don’t know what to do and how to move forward!