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What can I do?

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Lisa561 · 12/10/2024 11:06

Me and my ex broke up after 8 years as he was abusive - we own a house together still but I had to rent as I couldn’t safely live there anymore.

1 year down the line and our house still hasn’t sold - we’ve had multiple offers but he’s being greedy and keeps declining them , even though it’s more than enough to give him what he wants financially.

He also won’t take my name off the mortgage , I’ve offered to walk away with nothing so I can just be free - I just want to buy somewhere of my own and not be tied to him anymore - I’m not fussed about financial side , I just want my freedom. I’m getting to my wits end.

recently found out he’s now dating someone 11 years than him (even though he’s denying it) and I’ve seen her car outside our house. Which even though I don’t want to be with him , it hurts as it was my first home that we picked together etc.

now I’m so angry because he’s living in our house living his best life while I can’t move on with mine.

I have no idea where to go from here now , I feel trapped , angry and hurt all over again.

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Osirus · 12/10/2024 11:13

You could take him to court to force a sale? It’s costly and time consuming but it’s an option.

Lisa561 · 12/10/2024 11:15

@Osirus i was thinking this but as the house is technically up sale, I wasn’t sure if that would still apply

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