Possibly a long one...
With my now boyfriend over two years, both have children from previous marriages.
I'm still living with family, trying to get rid of my house. He rents a room then stays at his mother's the weekend when he has his children as no space in rented accommodation.
So when he split his ex had a partner, moved in with him then they broke up and she was "homeless". She was staying with my partners mum.
She went to the local paper about being homeless and was given accommodation temporarily and has now been given a state home.
The thing is she never has the children, she works a couple of days a week but his mum is doing all the child care. So he pays his mum and her child support. He tried lower the amount and she drove 30mins up and almost knocked the door down and then keyed his car.
I get on with his children and his mum but I just can't wrap my head around this at all, she moaned she had no home for the children but still leaves them with their grandmother who isn't young.
Can I say anything to him, it's really starting to annoy me, I don't know if they are all afraid of her or what.
I suppose it doesn't help , that I myself am struggling to find a place but am doing it all alone with zero help. Also she broke their relationship, she wanted an open marriage.
Please help, I have contemplated walking away but I truly love him and he is my safe space.