Can he be the perfect guy?

[Deebee90]

I’m prepared to get a roasting on this but I need opinions.

been dating a guy for roughly about 4/5 months and honestly he is the most amazing guy I’ve been with. He is caring, passionate, smart a family man. Someone I could see my future with and I’ve even met some of his family etc. But there’s 2 things I have slight issues with, one he snores and I mean snores. I need silence to sleep and with him I can’t sleep for hours. And 2 his penis size. He isn’t as big as I’m used too and sometimes I don’t really feel pleasure but he is good with other ways .

these things are in my head and honestly stopping me falling in love with him . I need opinions on whether you would stay and try and work through it or walk away. I’m honestly torn . I feel like he could be my future, have children with and see the world with him.

Are there any other things you have doubts about?

Just see how it goes… still early.

My answer would depend on your age and how much time you still have to find someone to have a family with… But, in general, there really aren’t that many good men out there (and those who are, may not be interested in you). So I would wear wax earplugs or sleep in different rooms. You’ll get used to the size of his penis in time…

however, it’s still v early and the relationship may fall apart for other reasons, at which point you’ll think it silly that you wasted time thinking about snoring and penis size

No not at all. Well so far everything else is all good.

We’re both mid 30s. Not had the future chat but I know he wants kids in the future as do I. I can sleep in ear plugs as I have done multiple times in hospital but I think it’s the thought of doing that forever etc.

Hmmm...He can't really satisfy you and you are deprived of sleep.. I personally wouldn't...

walk away. plenty more fish in the sea who wont snore and have a really big cock to satisfy you with

Has he tried strips or talking to a dr about snoring? You need to be upfront about how much its effecting you.

The size thing - if he satisfies you in other ways I don’t know that I’d bin him just for this, especially as he’s great otherwise.

I wouldn’t judge anyone else’s choices but I’m 50 and haven’t had happy relationships. I don’t know how many good guys there are out there. If I had to do it over again I would keep a guy such as yours. I’d sleep in different rooms (I love my space anyway) and use vibrators or work around the penis size.

I had the opposite of this which was that he was kind of a jerk but I was reluctant to break up because of the MARROW he had down there. Big mistake, two years wasted.

i have a courgette so i'm jealous....

Think about all the things that you want to tick in a person:

Looks, morals, intellect, hobbies, finances, family, will/are they a good parent, sex, them loving you, families, and just that natural chemistry.

Finding someone that ticks everything is very difficult - it can happen but I am of the view that once you get to 8/10 then you can either be happy with that or continue to seek perfection and end up missing out. You could spend the next 10 years looking for Mr Perfect and end up with a 6/10 or get lucky and find a 9/10 in 6 months.

What if you found someone that didnt snore and had a big willy but did not have the same career aspirations or morals?

Well I wasn’t expecting replies on this. But to update we are still together and I absolutely adore him. He’s the partner I never thought I’d get, the sex has got better so no complaints there and the snoring well I can handle it and if not I have a spare room.

Fantastic!....at least there's hope for the 85 % of guys that fit in to the average 5 to 7 inch category. But then who wants average.......😆