Sorry for the long post. I'm a F married to M with 2 children, aged 7 and 8. My dad is currently at the end stages of cancer and we are all struggling to come to terms with it and worried for what's to come (end of life etc). I'm not coping with it well and it's been a tortuous 2 years with treatments not working and progressive illness. My husband and I haven't been getting on well at all through it all and he's barely supported me through these tough times. I've been unable to be intimate with him (probably due to depression due to coping with my dad's illness and various other issues following my 2nd daughter's birth) and recently he told me he can't stay in a sexless marriage and I think he wants to leave me but can't bring himself to say it because of me being close to losing my dad. He had an emotional affair with another woman 2 years ago (just after my dad's diagnosis) and I've struggled to forgive him for it. I'm at a loss what to do. I don't think I want him to go but our marriage is not really a marriage now. I wanted to work on it and we did couples therapy for a while which he stopped. Am I crazy to still want to make the marriage work or am I right in being furious with how he's treating me through the worst years of my life?