Hi, I need some advice.
I have a friend of around 14 years,
She's always been hot headed, having a lot of meltdowns, feeling paranoid ect, she does have mental health issues that she was previously getting help for, I too have mental health issues. I'm sad because I honestly think our friendship is coming to an end.
So here's just a few things, they sound silly but it really is a problem,
With social media she's constantly deleting it because nobody likes her posts, I feel pressure to liking every single post of hers incase she takes offence, or if she puts a post up to say how well she's doing that I should share it. She's always been the same, she'll back off or fall out with me if I'm not acting how she believes a friend should act. If I put a post on Facebook she should would say "is that about me" the other week she wrote me a big long text message saying how she can't be around me no more to which came out the blue, then rang me to apologise a few weeks later, last week she fell out with me again over social media, every time she comes back saying sorry I was in my own head I was having a meltdown, it's all very childish and draining, she always takes her feelings out on me, it's been happening for a long time, she can be quite selfish too. There's always a feeling of 'what have I done now'. She's so difficult to talk too or approach in case I say something to upset her. She's always making plans with me then cancelling, when I cancel on the odd occasion she's funny with me. I've always been there for her but when I need to chat I get "sorry I can't take on anyone else's problems at the minute" She can also be very competitive, and she does have a jealous streak, example, if I says oh my husband did this for me you can literally see her face change, it's awful, it sounds so silly I know but it's really getting to me. Recently her teenage son has started spreading rumours about me which I was devastated about because I've always treated him like family and always been there for him. My mum passed 5 years ago and she didn't come to her funeral because "she can't handle funerals" which hurt a lot.
I'm just feeling like i don't want this friendship anymore that there's no positives for me, any advice would be appreciated.