Hi all, just wanted some advice really…
I have a beautiful son age 3, we live together in our own council home now and are very happy. My relationship with his father was/is still toxic. He’s a narcissist, very controlling, and was abusive & cheated also. Anyway, without going into that too much… he lives 2hrs away, he doesn’t drive however he has two days off a week, also has holiday leave. He sees his son every 3-4 months for around ten days and doesn’t see him otherwise… he video calls a lot which is annoying as it bothers me, I don’t want to see or talk to him for obvious reasons however I allow the call so he can talk to his son. It upsets me he is so inconsistent with our son & when he does see him, they are stuck indoors all week he doesn’t even take him to do anything, no memories made!!
I’m also in a relationship which he is unaware of, he previously has told me I am not to introduce anybody to our son, which is basically saying I can’t move on, can’t move in with anyone or get married because my sons a big part of my life. Of course I’m not going to listen to his stupid request but I do worry that when he finds out he will threaten to take my son away. What would you do in my situation?