In July I discovered OH had been talking to someone else since April and spent 4 days with them just prior to me finding out. He said he needed some days away to help his mental health and was instead off meeting the OW but coming home every night and telling me he loved me and missed me. We have three children together, two with SEND. I had no idea what he was doing and was totally blindsided, we’d just bought a new car and booked a family holiday. There was no indication he was unhappy.
Since I found out I have discovered he’s told her he’s in love with her and wants to have children with her (all within weeks of speaking to her and before meeting her in person) - she lives in another country and is 10years younger than her then me (5 years younger than him)
He finally moved out a week ago and has told me he’s book a holiday with her in October. I am devastated and feel broken, I feel like I’ve lived a lie and I don’t know how to cope without him.
I’m trying to keep going to for the children but just want to hide in bed all day. I can’t see how I will ever get over what he’s done