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Does anyone else have this worry

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123andbreathe123 · 26/09/2024 21:22

My daughters 9 and quite an anxious child. She's always had a friend in all years. But she's not popular and has a smaller circle of friends. She has a best friend and a few others but its dramary. My daughters not bubbly or confident. But she's getting a little better.

I have always from her being a baby had an intense fear of her going to secondary school. I am scared of her being bullied. Attacked on the way home etc. I know this is just intrusive thoughts. I dont think of it everyday. But I have a genuine fear of this stage and we will look around schools in the next year for her.

I just wanted to ask how other mums feel. I might have a negative view on how teenagers can be now. But I see some awful stuff on the news and when I walk my kids to school I find the secondary school kids very sweary and rude. Obviously not all.

I don't know why I'm so afraid of her being out and about alone one day.

OP posts:
Candyfluffs · 26/09/2024 21:25

It’s normal and you are right to be concerned. Don’t let your anxiety rub off on her though. Make her aware of how to stay safe, give her a phone with whatever parental controls are and just breathe and stay calm.

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