4 weeks ago I arranged for our landlord to come look at a fence that needs replacing. My partner works 2 days a week, I work 5, so it was arranged and agreed for a morning slot when he wasn't due to work. 8am to 12 noon. He's just come home from work to says he's agreed to a shift starting at 1145 that day which means he will leave at 1115. Because I wasn't impressed when he suggested I ring them to tell them they need to arrive early, I'm an 'angry, unreasonable person and he's sick of me saying when he cant work'. I don't.
He retired at 50 with a nice pension and wanted to work 2 days a week yet if there's a shift going that they can't fill, he jumps at it regardless of what we might have planned. Then if I point out something on the calendar he hasnt checked, its Mr Defensive. He also complains he never has time to do his hobbies. Ive spent many weekends alone when he has been working and been Ok with it. It may seem a small thing but my menopausal tolerance levels are running very low. AIBU being peed off?