I did an idiotic thing - messaged exh asking for a meet up. Neither of us has had a relationship since separating/divorce 9 years ago. We are both quite shy people, so unsurprising. I have made a seemingly good life for myself in the time since separating. Good job, friends, social activities, financially secure. But it’s a grind. In real terms difficult to really move on.
I guess I’m posting as a confession, rightly saying I’m on a highway to nothing. There was a reason we divorced. It’s too easy to imagine the possibility of recapturing what first brought us together. I doubt he will respond, and this is the reason our marriage ended - poor communication between us both.
Just to add we have two adult children, so there will always be that link.
I know the only thing to do is pick myself up, dust myself off, and get back in the horse and count blessings.
It’s helped to post. Thank you.