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Unsure on what to think ? Please advise me..

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Lifesforloving1 · 23/09/2024 22:12

Hi ! Unsure what this is….
I randomly srarted chatting to this guy on instagram a few weeks ago… at first just likes on photos. But now we’re chatting everyday. He seems very nice & has offered me out for a coffee if I’m ever in our local town. What is this ? Do you think it’s genuine? He has a lot of followers/ following people on social media …. But seems genuinely interested in me ?
he’s becoming very flirty with me over messages even though he’s not met me yet ? Is this the norm? I’ve just come out of a long relationship so unsure what to think. ?

Should I keep messaging a little longer to test waters ?

OP posts:
Girlmom35 · 23/09/2024 22:13

If you're having fun, just go with it.
Trust your gut.
Take things slow

Idontjetwashthefucker · 23/09/2024 22:15

You've just come out of a long term relationship, I'd slow it right down and have some time to yourself before jumping into another

Opentooffers · 23/09/2024 22:23

The over-flirty ones who not even met yet, while are numerous, are not the type you want to be bothering with. It's common, but it doesn't make them 'normal' - think, cringey creep. Now if just chatty, maybe OK and coffee is harmless, but the flirting would make me think twice - that and being a randomer contacting.
Wouldn't happen to me, I have better security on SM so it's not open to all and sundry. Consider there's a lot less safety checks contacting this way than OLD - and that's bad enough.

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