Un biased advised needed

[Rosejlg123]

Hi,
Me and my husband have been together for 12 years, 5 married and have a 3 year old child.
Three weeks ago we had a disagreement over him going to see a friend who does not live local to us as he had not seen his child all week. With this he announced he had enough of our marriage and felt we had grown apart, the next day he had moved into the spare room and things have been pretty rubbish.
We have been trying to keep things normal for our child however having my husband who i love in the spare room who sees me as a friend is really not good for me, i am spending all night crying and can barely function during the day.
We are both joint home owners and he is refusing to leave. Am i being unfair? My friends are telling me to chuck him out ect but i dont want to hurt my child and need to do whats best for us both
Totally lost right now

Sorry OP this sounds like such an awful time you are going through. Perhaps the argument was just the catalyst for you to be speaking about bigger issues?

im not gonna lie I think there’s a really strong chance he will turn around and change his mind and want to stay with you. Often they only want something else for a bit to push boundaries

Sounds like you need a serious talk about your relationship. He's obviously not happy and neither are you. You need to discuss how you can meet each others needs.