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Would this lie bother you or aibu?

31 replies

Loop45 · 19/09/2024 14:14

New boyfriend of 2 months. Has a female friend who he meets up with often, told me she was a new friend he met at a hobby, fair enough.
she came along to an event I was at with my boyfriend and some friends, she kept her distance and I felt she was throwing me daggers a bit. Boyfriend said she was just a bit drunk. I asked again how they met and he admitted to meeting her on tinder but they had never dated and just were friends.
we haven’t spoke it for about a month now but last night he said he was meeting for her a bite to eat and cinema. Maybe I was overreacting but I said it sounded a bit like a date. He said they are just friends, nothing to worry about etc. I asked again about when they first met and he admitted then they did have 1 date which ended in a kiss and then became friends after that. I do trust nothing else is going on now but I’m pissed off at the lying? I know he doesn’t owe me his whole dating history but I just had a feeling about thit

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snowlady4 · 24/09/2024 21:17

Yes it would bother me.
No need to lie if nothing to hide?
What was the hobby?- it sounds like quite a calculated lie too.
If they're just friends, you can go an watch the film too!
Something is off here.

LuckyCrow · 24/09/2024 21:21

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Chaiilatte · 24/09/2024 21:24

He's taking the absolute piss out of you. Bringing his "friend" along whom he met on tinder? Going to the cinema and a bite to eat with a friend woman he met on tinder? Oh please. Get rid of him, he's having his cake and eating it.

solice84 · 24/09/2024 21:29

So he's dating you both then
And not even trying to hide it

MamaBear4ever · 25/09/2024 06:49

Please get rid of this man and move on.

MsDogLady · 25/09/2024 07:03

Well he has set up quite the ego-boosting triangle with his 2 adoring, competitive women.

@Loop45, if you’re smart you’ll remove yourself from his game and leave them to it. You can do much better than this manipulative lying loser.

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