I have been friends with this person since school. We were never really that close. In fact I distanced myself from them a few years ago due to bullying then somehow we ended up chatting again and became friends. I thought at the time well it’s in the past maybe they have changed. How wrong was I? This person is so flakey, demanding and manipulative. We are in a group chat with other people and arrange to meet up. Most of the time she bails and is flakey. I had distanced myself due to her behaviour at her wedding and at mine and so didn’t care if she came or not. Recently, she has been asking am I ok I’m very quiet have we fallen out? Bearing in mind we were never that close but it is frustrating as this is now a few times she had texted me. Rather than just ignoring and upsetting I have simply said sorry I’ve been busy and was she ok? And she said that she feels like she has no friends. Again messages are in the chat with the others including me about meeting up and making plans and she never responds. I don’t get this? She has asked this numerous times and it’s getting frustrating. Either meet up with us or don’t. But if you don’t then don’t say you are lonely or feel like you have no friends. I do not want to be around this behaviour. How do o cut ties? Or am I being an asshole? I think the behaviour is just attention seeking and manipulative