How soon is too soon?

[FairyQueen39]

Just want to get others takes - been talking to this guy who lives locally for 2 weeks, and we have arranged to go on our very first date this weekend.
However, I already find him super attractive and we have been heavily flirting at times. Both of us have agreed we would like a long term relationship with someone… so my question is - how long would you personally wait to get intimate with someone if you were in the same situation?

Knocking boots… never heard of that in one 🤔But thank you!

I have sex on the first date normally so don't ask me.

3 or 4 dates usually, but these days I'd be more cautious after health issues. But tbf a while back, it having been a couple of months and about a dozen dates, did not make any difference, in fact less loyalty or respect was shown by him in the end than anyone I'd got with much sooner, so waiting only serves to give a false sense of security and means little in the grand scheme. Do what you feel is right at the time.

I do it whenever I feel like, sometimes first date, sometimes second. But DON'T expect a relationship, and don't believe that he wants it. If you have sex with him, do it because you want it and it will be fun. (I always think "if I never see him again, will I regret having sex?". I only go ahead if the answer is "no")

@whatwouldlilacerullodo I agree with this answer. I do this too. Sex if u fancy it with no expectations of a relationship. I've had lots of first date sex that turned into committed relationships after