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ConfusedChristina · 14/09/2024 20:25

I went on holiday with a guy, whilst we were away he talked about us travelling to Spain and everything seemed good.
We are not living together, however he said he would ring and he didn’t. Now he won’t answer my texts or calls.
l paid for the accommodation and he agreed, he would give half back, he hasn’t. He owes me around £500, what would you do

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Psychoticbreak · 15/09/2024 10:10

I went on a weekend break with my ex after about 2 months its not that short a time as a grown adult. However he paid the hotel etc online and i paid for meals when there. I would go to his house and ask for it.

TillyKister · 15/09/2024 10:20

Sadly OP you've encountered a scummy man, who has let you down. It's horrible what he's done, and you've seen his true colours now. I know it's a lot of money, but it's probably a blessing you've only lost £500... He'd probably have scammed you for more in the long run.

As hard as it is, let this be the end of any involvement of any kind with him. It's sad that he's treated you in such a way, and he's clearly used your circumstances to hoodwink you. He saw your vulnerability. Keep away from him, and don't fall for anymore involvement with him.

forevernumb · 15/09/2024 10:28

ConfusedChristina · 15/09/2024 09:53

we pay 50/50 me one meal, him the next . Everyone is saying three months is too soon to go on holiday together, why?

Ummmm your post explains why.

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