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Advise needed

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Grace05 · 14/09/2024 17:14

Hi all
I need some help i have fallen in love with my boss. I have been working with him for 2 years and i have tried everything to make it go away. He is a very attractive and looks after all us so well. He always finds the time to help everyone with work or personal problems and he is very respected within the buisness. We have such a laugh when we are together and i am not sure but i think he does flirt with me a bit. He is divorced and i know he is looking for someone i want it to me sooo bad. The big problem everyone keeps telling me is he is 49 and i am 19. I have seen lots of relationship work with this age gap but everyone is saying it wont work. I have tried to date other men even tried to loose my virginity but stopped them as it wasn't him. I want him to be the first and give him as many babies as he wants. I had hoped it was a crush and tried everything to make it go away but it is definitely not as i said i have had this crush for two years now but the last six months he is all i can think about. Should i just tell him how a feel or try and be more flirty please help running out of options.

OP posts:
Jagshamesh · 14/09/2024 17:20

You should definitely have all of his babies.

IThinkImStillMe · 14/09/2024 17:21

Give him as many babies as he wants 😂

NoShirtNoShoesNoSheldon · 14/09/2024 17:22

I have seen lots of relationship work with this age gap

Impossible.

The kindly advice, if this is actually real, I would give is look for a new job. It would be hugely inappropriate for someone his age to start something with a very young employee, so even if he did like you. You need to be in a different job for anything to happen.

The blunt advice is that this is a crush. Get a new job, put some distance between you and mix more with people your own age.

yesoknow · 14/09/2024 17:50

He's so old compared to you, it's gross to contemplate you together. Leave the job and find new work friends your age .

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