I have posted on here a few times before re my husband filming me during sex without consent.The relationship was not good before this and it was the final straw.
He agreed to seperation and I asked him to leave as we have 4 children and its impossible for me to as I am the main carer day to day etc.
He has been very reluctant,I am paying 50% of the mortgage now and all the household bills.He found a flat and got the keys 2 weeks ago now and he is still making excuses to sleep on the sofa.
He trys to make me feel guilty that he is having to move out, then he will try being overly nice,giving me compliments etc like I will change my mind.It is messing with my head the way the situation is dragging on.Has anyone else seperated and their other half been reluctant to leave.
I am thinking I need to start divorce proceedings but cannot afford it at the moment.I feel like I have been reasonable in giving him over 3 months,also sorting the finances so he is able to afford to rent.I find it so hard to be firm with my boundaries when he is dragging his heels and making this nightmare go on and on. Any advice welcome.