I have been with my partner 4 and a half years. We don't live together. He's 14 years older with a bad back which has stopped him working for the last year. He's always been in and out of work but his job paid well when he was in it.
Sex has always been strange. For the first 3 months we were always having sex. Then it die down to nothing. At the time I was very anxious and frustrated as we had been so passionate and he was always very flirtatious and made it sound like sex would be amazing.
For about a year I tried so hard to get him to come onto me. I brought the subject up so many times and it was awkward and usually ended on me feeling guilty.
Last year for 8 months he was always wanted me and it went to almost 4 or 5 times a week. We got creative and found ways and he always initiated it. Then he got sacked and hasn't worked since. Overnight it has stopped again. It's once a month if that something may happen.
He is constantly trying new tablets that he never takes properly. He sleeps sleeps sleeps.
I am working. He comes up when I finish. Usually tells me how tired his is. He gets laid on my sofa and he nods off. Or we are in bed for 8pm.
I'm 35 and I'm really starting to feel down. Maybe a mild depression going on. I feel so frustrated and bored.
What can I do about it?