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Should I text her

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Huggablee · 13/09/2024 12:56

I’ve been dating this girl for the past three months, with the last month being long distance. Our communication during this time hasn’t been very strong, and now I sometimes feel like the relationship might end soon. However, I really like her a lot. Should I write her an email expressing how I’ve been feeling over the past month, or should I let it go? I’m concerned that expressing my feelings might make her think I’m too attached in a short span of time.

OP posts:
Girlmom35 · 13/09/2024 13:05

It's only been three months, and you're already eroding.
Which isn't odd, since you were only together for 2 months before going long-distance, and many mature relationships don't even survive long-distance.
Is there a time-table on when you'll be in the same area again? Or is this indefinite?

I'd say prepare yourself for this relationship to be over. You could send en e-mail, but it will most likely not do any good long term.

SaffronsMadAboutMe · 13/09/2024 13:07

An email?

Is it likely to be very long and won't fit into a reasonably small text?

If so, yes it's a bad idea.

TwistedWonder · 13/09/2024 13:08

I would say no. Telling her you’re worried the relationship might bed soon could come across as a bit clingy and needy.

Id try and keep up normal communication as much as possible but maybe accept that going LD so soon might be the nail in the coffin here.

noideas81 · 13/09/2024 13:18

Tell her!!! I've had more men than hot dinners and trust me... being a gentleman goes a long way! Let her know how you feel about her, if she rejects it at least you won't live wondering! Or.. she might love it and say she feels the same. Life is so short. Go for it x

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