In this case though it’s more - had a second baby and lost my friends 
I know it isn’t exactly unusual to have another child after the first but for whatever reason I’m the only one in my friendship group from first time around who has done so.
It’s proved incredibly lonely as it’s hard in many ways having two children as it is but I’m now completely isolated! I’ve obviously tried the usual baby groups but I haven’t found actual friendships from them.
I suppose there is no real point to this thread other than a bit of a self indulgent pity party.