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Help I so confused

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Chelle7983 · 06/09/2024 01:48

Can someone help me please so the situation is that I've been dating this guy for only a short while but it's long distance so in the beginning I was hesitant about getting into a relationship with him because of my past relationship so have trust issues he was lovely in the beginning used to speak on the phone and text all the time and now it practically nothing we only just gotten back together he ended it but then said he wanted to give it another go but for it to work I had to cut all ties with my ex whom im friends with(a different ex previously mentioned so I did even though he knew in the beginning I was still friends with my ex and showed no inclination that this bothered him I just feel that the context of his texts and frequency off them and the lack of calls makes think he doesn't want this anymore bit when I ask him about he just says he's busy with even though his job and hours were exactly the same as the beginning when we first got together and when we do see each other I come away full of anxiety not knowing if I'm coming or going when I should come away happy am I just overthinking things that there is something wrong please help

OP posts:
Biggaybear · 06/09/2024 02:18

And breathe.........

You have agency over your life. You don't have to wait around to see if he is going to text or call you. If its not working then tell him it's over.

This doesn't seem to be a good relationship so end it. And also maybe try datimg someone closer to home. Makes things a lot easier.

SunflowerTed · 06/09/2024 03:18

Red flags all over this. Just end it

FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 06/09/2024 03:50

He's lost interest. Dump him and move on.

Sinisterdexter · 06/09/2024 04:06

It’s not up to him who you’re friends with.
Dont be in a relationship with someone who makes unreasonable conditions, especially so early on.

Yougetmoreofwhatyoufocuson · 06/09/2024 04:52

Don’t be nice to people who are not nice to you.

If a person makes you anxious they are not someone you need to be around.

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