Why doesn't he block me on everything?

[itsnearlythemostwonderfultime]

A man who I probably should have walked away from long before now is seriously messing with my head.
He gaslights me,I know it's happening.
I gave him so many chances but all that's happened is I get hurt.
He makes me jealous,he loves to get a reaction but then pretends he doesn't understand.

After he did something pretty shitty he blocked me on WhatsApp.
I was messaging him asking why etc
He didn't block me on Facebook /snapchat or anything else.

Two weeks later I messaged him on Facebook.
He replied "I only blocked you on WhatsApp,I could of easily blocked you everywhere but I didn't want to do that,don't you think if I really wanted too I wouldn't of just done it"
"I bet you regret kicking off now"

So he hates me enough to block me
Wants nothing to do with me
Why not just block me on everything?
What did he mean? I honestly don't get him at all.

I don't know what you're confused about op.

He told you why.

'I bet you regret kicking off now'.

He blocked you to upset you.
To punish you for not doing whatever it was he wanted (ie: maybe you pulled him up on is bs or something).

Listen to your wording too. 'He hates me enough too... xyz'. Honey if anyone hates you AT ALL get as far away from them as fast as possible.

I suggest you simply stop all the drama in its tracks by blocking him on everything and never thinking of him again.

It doesn’t ‘mean’ anything. He’s having a laugh at your expense, nothing more. He’s not blocking you because you message him on different platforms which gives him the attention he craves and confirms to him that you’re upset/a mess (which is what he wants).

There is no other answer. You need to block him on everything. Today.

He is fucking with your head and you are letting him. He is enjoying being in control of your feelings here. Just block him.

For goodness sake! Find some self respect. You sound about 14.

Block this man on everything and move on.

Jesus Murphy, let it alone!
Clearly you aren't meant to be together, so you go your way, he goes his and never cross paths again

Look I'm totally aware I have acted like an idiot.
I'm also aware I won't be contacting him ever again.
I just don't understand how a person can get kicks off hurting /messing with peoples emotions.

Haven't your last eleventy billion threads saying the same thing not given you some answers?

He is not a puzzle for you to work out and ‘understand’. He is simply a horrible person who has no respect for you. Get away from him immediately.

And, for future relationships if anyone is behaving in a way that confuses you or doesn’t make sense to you then you need to remove yourself. Healthy relationships are uncomplicated, there are no complicated mysteries. I know that’s not the way things are in romantic films where the woman has to overcome all kinds of complications to get her man, or where there are reasons she doesn’t know why he is behaving badly, but it all comes right in the end. In real life if a man needs puzzling out he is not the right man. It’s simple.

I'm also aware I won't be contacting him ever again.
Good. Make sure you don't. Delete his number and move on.

I just don't understand how a person can get kicks off hurting /messing with peoples emotions.
You don't need to understand why. You really, really don't. People do weird stuff, people do abusive stuff, people do cruel stuff, people deliberately break laws. You don't need to understand people, not one, but you really need to understand why you can't let go. Work on your boundaries and self worth.

Grow up, my 14 year old stopped behaving like this last year!

Why are you lot (almost all of you) being so vile?

She’s upset. Do you enjoy upsetting her more? Just like this man she’s talking about? That’s what you’re all doing.

Sorry, OP, best thing to do his block someone who makes you feel like this. It’s hard.

Nice.

Because she name changes and posts thread after thread after thread after thread - all about a man/men she's obsessed with but denies that she is

Are you the same person who posted the 'why does he hate me' thread?

He replied "I only blocked you on WhatsApp,I could of easily blocked you everywhere but I didn't want to do that,don't you think if I really wanted too I wouldn't of just done it"
"I bet you regret kicking off now

Be glad you're rid of a man that treats you like rubbish, can't use grammar properly and sounds immature.

Exactly this.

sure ive read this a few times?