5 year relationship. For first 2 years we were dating/getting into a relationship he was texting his ex. Still had pics of her everywhere. I felt like I was being compared and it was hideous. We broke up for 8 months when I saw texts to her that basically confirmed all my fears. She was on his brain. He was texting her saying he was crying over their time together. 3 days before my birthday. I was absolutely broken.
We split up..he came back. Told me she had met someone. Nothing had happened. He came off all social media. He's changed his number too. She's rarely if ever mentioned.
She's always kept all their kissy memory photos public on fb but recently locked a few Down. Took her 6 years!!! I don't look at her page often now but last year when we got back together I did for a while to try reassure myself it was over. I noted she was going to a beach type place 2 hours from where we live quite regularly. Hunstanton.
I was sat tonight talking to my boyfriend about my week at the beach I've just come back from with my kids. I mentioned cromer as a possible next destination. He randomly said "you should go to Hunstanton" yesterday he was talking about altona towers and how much he loved it when he was younger. I know this is a place his ex likes.
I'm 37 and he's 50. She's 41. He's fast asleep and I'm wide awake thinking do I need to ask him why out of all the beaches and places he recommended his exes new favourite place. Or do I not say a word??? Something tells me he's speaking with her or at least looking on her social media pages at her life?