Hello,
I would like to ask the community for support as I sit here in absolute pieces after discovering that the Father of my children got someone else pregnant and had been leading a double life, lying, cheating and deceiving me for the last five years.
I have two beautiful boys and this man is their Father but he has had nothing to do with raising them whatsoever. He always believed that his job was to send money home and so for five years, all he has done is send a bit of money home monthly. Aside from that, he has never taken the boys out for a day anywhere, never taken them
swimming, never helped them ride a bike… nothing. He lied about countless incidents and gaslit me to death. When I confronted him about anything, ever.. he would become aggressive. He has no respect for women at all in any way.
He went off to work abroad and left us and had been sleeping with MULTIPLE people (men and women) for around 10 months before telling me he was having a baby with someone else.
Has anyone on here ever been through this situation? Or similar? How did you cope? I haven’t eaten for three days.. I did manage to sleep last night. I don’t understand why I am
so torn up, I am so happy to be rid of him. I think the deceit has shocked me and now I am scared to trust anything that anyone says.
I just feel sick to my stomach. And now have to have this abuser in my life for the rest of my life because we had children together.
I just need to add - he was really happy when he told me about his other child on the way. He enjoyed hurting me and loved seeing the upset it caused.