Hey everyone, I am hoping to get some advice.
I met a woman online around two months ago. We really hit it off, and it was very intense for the first few weeks. I stayed at hers a lot, we went on trips and had lots of fun (I went on to learn this is the hyperfocus stage).
Out of nowhere it went from 100 to 0 but she had an open conversation with me and was completely honest. She told me that she has put off self care, and lost her routine after putting all of her energy into me. To me, it looked like she lost interest. She said that we needed to take a step back, and be on a friendship level for now whilst we work on ourselves.
Since then, we have been out a lot, she is still a little affectionate every now and then but not like she used to be.
I am trying my best to learn about ADHD and Autism, and I have listened to multiple podcasts and I am currently reading a book.
I don't know how to support her and I do really like her. I do not want to lose her. I do think it is clear that she likes me to.
She recently came back from a trip with her family, and she was speaking with her mum about me, which I think may be a good sign?
I just don't know how to move forward and I am anxious about it all. Does anyone have any advice?