Hello,
im thinking about leaving my husband. I have a little baby he’s three months old. I’ve been with my husband for five years. I really do love him and don’t want to leave but his drinking is really affecting me. He went out this Friday and stayed in bed all the next day on his phone didn’t get up once to help with baby. Three weeks ago I went to visit my parents and he ended up drinking at our house Thursday evening and Friday during the day. He didn’t go to work on Friday and he didn’t come and visit us at my parents until Sunday when he was supposed to be there on Friday. He was so depressed after drinking that he didn’t go to work all that week and barely talked to me. He definitely suffers from depression and grew up with an alcoholic father but I don’t think I can do it anymore. I asked him last night to give up drinking and he blames me and makes me feel like I’m crazy and blowing things out of proportion. In the past he’s wrecked my car from driving it into the ditch. He’s been arrested for drink driving on a different occasion and has a court case coming. He takes cocaine which I am compleltly against.