Recently my Dad passed away about two months ago. I have a boyfriend of 8 years that I don't live with. He has been there for me during my the first few weeks, but the last few weeks he has been around to see me or I have seen him. He looks bored every time I've said anything about my Dad. Its a difficult time for me and for my family as it was sudden. Last time i seen him I said sorry it's not party time at the moment as I'm grieving.
We are both 50 years old, I have a daughter who is now at Uni and I was hoping he might move in at some point they never really got on.
Anyway so I was on the phone to him the other day, his Mum had texted to say if we both want to meet up for lunch as she lives a distance and wanted to check.
I asked him and he was hesitant saying oh, well I've booked some time off next week. I said oh are you doing something, I had to really ask and he said he was going on holiday to Ibiza. I asked who with you never said anything? he said a woman from work he's become friends with who's a lesbian and I think her girlfriend. He was a bit sketchy as to who was actually going. I asked when did you book this? he said a month ago when he last got paid! I said oh great you never said anything all that time. He said oh you go on holidays without me, that's my daughter and he's always refused and its never Ibiza.
He never even likes going for a walk with me lately and he always tells me he has no money really to go on holidays. I said I'm hanging up, he told me not to and that she is his friend. He has texted me, he said, 'Hey you not talking?' but I'm grieving my Dad and finding it difficult. What to do?