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Friend causing trouble

15 replies

Carpets7 · 25/08/2024 14:05

My friend has lied to her ex saying she is dating my boyfriend’s friend. She has never met my boyfriend. I am annoyed she would drag my boyfriend into it.

Now her ex is sending my boyfriend aggressive messages.

I have told her to not drag my boyfriend into her ex dramas and by lying we are getting hassle. I told her that she will not move on while she still speaks to him and that she should block him or contact the police if he is harassing her.

I can’t believe a 44 year old woman and a 44 year old man are acting like this. It is as though they are not happy so want to cause trouble for us.

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Zerogiven · 25/08/2024 14:22

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sadabouti · 25/08/2024 14:26

Yes, well a lack of emotional maturity may explain why they are both bouncing around in short unhappy relationships.

BleachedJumper · 25/08/2024 14:28

I can appreciate it’s unpleasant for your boyfriend to receive unpleasant messages, I would hope he has not responded and blocked the ex partner.

That should end your involvement.

Carpets7 · 25/08/2024 15:23

She is ringing me now even though I told her the other day I was going out. These people must be bored.

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ourtimedownhere · 25/08/2024 15:27

Surely the easy answer is you all block her ex.

Carpets7 · 25/08/2024 15:41

ourtimedownhere · 25/08/2024 15:27

Surely the easy answer is you all block her ex.

I blocked the ex 2 months ago. My boyfriend is intelligent and said he won’t respond as he does not need to. I know she won’t block her ex as she loves the drama.

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BabaYetu · 25/08/2024 15:43

Did you start thread about this a couple of days ago? If not, I’m getting major deja vu

Mintypig · 25/08/2024 15:44

I’d block her and the ex.
no one needs this.

VWT5 · 25/08/2024 15:45

“as she loves the drama”
I think your friend isn’t the only one who might love the drama…

its2024 · 25/08/2024 15:46

How did your friend and her ex, get your boyfriends number if never met him? Just block both

BobbyBiscuits · 25/08/2024 15:52

What about the friend that she claimed she was dating? How does he feel about it?
Or does he simply not exist?
Yeah. Block the lot of them. Honestly sounds like a bunch of 15 years olds.

Clementine22 · 25/08/2024 15:54

Ditch this friend … no one needs that nonsense going on.

Carpets7 · 25/08/2024 16:42

its2024 · 25/08/2024 15:46

How did your friend and her ex, get your boyfriends number if never met him? Just block both

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Carpets7 · 25/08/2024 16:43

Clementine22 · 25/08/2024 15:54

Ditch this friend … no one needs that nonsense going on.

I need to cut ties. I don’t need the drama.

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Thevelvelletes · 25/08/2024 17:06

Carpets7 · 25/08/2024 15:41

I blocked the ex 2 months ago. My boyfriend is intelligent and said he won’t respond as he does not need to. I know she won’t block her ex as she loves the drama.

Block the friend as well CBA being pulled into their drama's.

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