Husbands phone

[PrueintheLoo]

I saw an incoming video call on my husbands phone today.
It had a woman’s profile pic and name that I didn’t recognise, her fb profile shows that she lives in a country that he recently visited.
When I asked him about it he said he didn’t know her, later on he showed me these messages and said they were an anomaly of some sort and he didn’t send them. His name is not Kris.

How could they she on his phone if he didn’t send them ? Is this possible ?

It could be the result of him being hacked? www.janbasktraining.com/community/cyber-security/there-was-a-text-message-sent-from-my-phone-that-i-didnt-send-how-is-this-possible#:~:text=Malware%20or%20Spyware%3A%20If%20your,send%20messages%20without%20your%20consent.

I had an android phone a while ago, and in the middle of the night while I was on my own it sent a load of random personal data from my phone to various people on Instagram, personal photographs and copies of text messages. I got rid of the phone! Really weird and unsettling. Just saying, shit can happen

Unless he's been hacked and the hacker sent the texts?

Because this is Facebook messenger it does mean he could have been hacked. He's volunteered this info to you. It's also odd he'd call himself Kris if that's not his name on Facebook. It's also odd that a woman would respond by calling and video calling rather than replying by text if she doesn't already know him. I am not often one to give benefit of the doubt but this one requires further investigation! It's worrying he won't let you see more than the screenshot though... that's not a good sign. If my OH had been hacked he'd be giving me his phone and asking me to help sort it out urgently!

Actually, if he's being shady with the phone I'd say somethings up.
Can you find her on your Facebook?

This seems off to me, but only you know him.

I was going to say the same: the wording doesn't sound right and I've had many spam messages sounding like this... So maybe he's been hacked, yes.

He’s been sending young women money for pics and vids. Says “there’s something wrong with him” “needed excitement in his life”.
He won’t leave but I will get him out.
40 years married
He’s 70
No he doesn’t have dementia.

Surely if he has nothing to hide he would let you see his phone?

Fucking hell. 70?! How embarrassing.

You know he's saying there's something wrong with him so he doesn't have to take responsibility?

Oh wow, I hope you're okay OP

That escalated quickly 🙈
very sorry you’re going through this OP it must be devastating.

He wouldn’t be talking about anomalies then.

I'm so sorry @PrueintheLoo . Try to bring women around you that you can confide in and who can support you? It's shameful that he's behaved like that at this age but once you've got through the pain of separating, I've absolutely no doubt a much better life is waiting for you and that's quite exciting x x x

Op, you need to see a solicitor, as soon as humanly possible.

Sending love OP

Is he calling himself Kris as a false name?

Eww - he sounds like a perv!

Get rid OP - you deserve more xx

Old fool. Flattered by no doubt younger foreign women all to boost his ego.

So sorry OP. If he won't come clean, you have nothing to work on to save this marriage if you were so inclined. I would be giving him his marching orders.

Which country did he go to? Who did he go with?