I haven’t posted here in a long time, but you all have always been very good with advice!
I have been single for 2 years. I have been on a few dates but nothing ever came of it. My choice because I liked my life and enjoyed just being me and my kids. I don’t have a lot of time to invest in a relationship, or hadn’t met anyone I wanted to. However, I recently met a man online and we have been on 3 ‘dates’. We chat for hours, he’s funny and interesting and has all the same political beliefs as me. We have slept together and I feel like I’m already falling for him. It’s hit me out of the blue.
I feel like I’m going insane!!! I really, really like him but he’s a closed book. He had a traumatic childhood which might contribute to that. I just cannot tell what his feelings are, I cannot tell if he’s a player or into me. As I said, we have only been on 3 dates but how can I ask him without sounding like a total lunatic??
I feel like just ending it because I feel crazy. It’s not me at all! I’ve been hurt pretty bad in the past and I don’t want to continue this if he’s not on the same page as me, I can’t deal with hurt again.
help!!!