Been together over 3 years. Over the last year there has been a multitude of issues. Whenever I bring something up about moving in together, he says I say this all the time and he will say he does want to move in with me. But then months of not mentioning until I bring it up again. I don’t know what this is or if I am going mad, everytime I bring up an issue, he has an answer for everything. His family did not invite me to an outing with other in laws invited and he doesn’t see why I am bothered. He has an inability to see where I am coming from and will just come up with a counter argument constantly and say it’s no different from when I did this or that or he doesn’t see why I am upset. There seems to be this thing where he can never apologise or see when my feelings are genuinely hurt by his actions such as slamming doors or rolling his eyes at me when i want to have a genuine conversation. He would never call his family out and ask them why they are excluding me, he just says they organised the event. I feel like I’m starting to go mad, I start to think maybe I am being unreasonable and expecting too much and maybe I am too much. Day to day he is nice to me but I find myself wondering if he is treating me badly but I feel its subtle and I question myself a lot. He gets irritated at the small minor things and then I call him out for the way he speaks to me saying there’s no need when I haven’t done anything wrong, then he says I made him angry because I said something and that’s why he went on like that. I feel he’s getting into my head. Am I being emotionally manipulated? I feel I need to leave but feel trapped at the same time thinking it must be me that’s the problem. How do I leave this? I have tried and ending going straight back.