Hi I need some hand holding so please be very gentle lol.
I have been with my husband over 8 years and I had a few miscarriages then my beautiful child who is turning 3 this year. I have noticed for a while his family does not speak to me at all when they invite us over and it is getting to the point where its making me very uncomfortable!
I have never stopped my husband nor would I dream of saying to him "I don't want you to see them anymore" its not my nature however I personally now feel like I need to take a step back for my own wellbeing. When I got pregnant with my LO I was always reminded by them and my own mum to be honest that I shouldn't celebrate too early as I had previous miscarriages etc so for nine months I lived in fear then needed an emergency C section where I lost alot of blood.
I found out about three months ago that I will probably lose my ovary due to 6cm complex ovarian cysts and his mother has been telling family members my business etc and over the past two weeks I have been told my SIL is pregnant which is great for them but I notice the different already on how she is allowed to celebrate her news etc while I wasn't due to my previous MC's. I feel like there is no compassion there for me and no care and I honestly don't know what I done to deserve it. I have given my career as a solicitor to be a stay at home mum which I do love being but it is hard and now set up my own business, I am doing this while I am so unwell and yet they are no nasty to me.
I am also concerned they will immediately favourite their new GC over my LO because she is a girl and they wanted a boy with us too and even said "It must come from your gene" so I felt bit like Anne Boyle there lol.
Any advice because I feel so upset and I am wondering if i am in the wrong for being ill and having these miscarriages etc.