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Friend lying about me

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natel · 17/08/2024 23:52

I saw a friend tonight. I don’t see her much as she only contacts when things are not going well.

I saw her a few months ago and she said about a bike ride me, her and our exes went in on 2008. She said I was crying. The truth was she was crying and she was struggling with the hills. I told it was not me. She has said the same ago tonight and I said it must have been someone else and changed the subject.

I would have had it out with her but earlier in the night she told me she was low and suicidal as she is struggling with being her dad’s carer as he has dementia. I sat there for 2 hours tonight writing down carer support groups and activity groups for dementia patients and sending her the links and she repays me by making up lies about me about a bike ride from 16 years ago.

I feel I am being taken for a mug.

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XChrome · 18/08/2024 03:11

Dump her. She's a user.

My guess is she feels embarrassed about what a whiny little baby she was so she is trying to get you to take the blame instead. The nerve of her!

AgentJohnson · 18/08/2024 06:24

She could have been mistaken, it was 16 years ago.

natel · 18/08/2024 09:31

The annoying thing is she has brought it up twice now and blamed me when it was her. I don’t like liars who are trying to drag me down.

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