Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

What do I do

6 replies

Hippychickbbbb · 17/08/2024 21:46

Well my marriage looks like its really over I'm still in shock I knew things weren't right but I never expected him to file for divorce!! Do I continue to live with him or do you think we should sell? where would I live? I can't do computers he would have to help me get a council place.im angry I feel he didn't try hard enough to save the marriage he spent most times on his room I was the one making all the effort and it still wasn't good enough I feel worthless fat and unattractive.

I tried begging him he wouldn't change his mind last time I tried, ppl keep suggesting relate it's past that isn't it, he said he didn't love me?! Please help empathize I'm at a loss emotionally and every other way. Ps he said he's divorcing me as I raised my voice out of distress and slammed the door acouple of times I didn't mean to he got me so wound up I tried harder not to and I had to brake into my house cause I got locked out I couldn't afford a lock Smith he got said divorce as I broke a window trying to get back into my house I wouldn't normally do this I panicked! I apologized and paying it back I he sawed through the door too where he got locked out and he punched a door through and called me and worthless cxnt

OP posts:
Uol2022 · 18/08/2024 01:06

You own a house so is there equity in this? Do you work, or could you? Why would you need the council to house you?

What do you mean, you can’t do computers? You have the ability to post on here. What is it specifically you can’t do, how quickly could you learn?

Hippychickbbbb · 18/08/2024 12:03

I meant scan documents and stuff I meant that I find it hard to keep a job I've had loads that didn't work out

OP posts:
ToffeeHammer · 18/08/2024 12:36

Do you have children? How much equity is in the house? How much do you each earn?

pinkyredrose · 18/08/2024 12:40

I can't do computers he would have to help me get a council place.

Not sure what you mean by this. You're clearly online now so you can do the council thing yourself can't you?

OttersAreMySpiritAnimal · 18/08/2024 13:20

plenty of jobs don't require computer skills. If this was the other way round and he'd done the things you've done, would you stay? From the little you've put in your post it sounds like divorce might be there best option for you both.

mrmr1 · 18/08/2024 13:50

You do not need to scan documents just take a good photo of them with your phone.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page