So I started my current job about 5 months ago now. At my job, I have this super shy and introvert co worker. At first, I was genuinely curious about him. But after my trip, I started to notice him even more and I think I slowly started to like him too. I told my friend about it and I also asked her what is he like towards other people. She said that he barely interacts to people unless it’s work related. He also doesn’t greet people “Good Morning”, or smile at them when he makes eye contact with them. However, it’s different with me.
After he came back from his trip, he always greet me ”good morning” in the morning. Whenever he makes eye contact with me, he always smiles at me. There’s one time also, I asked about something I noticed about his office. He gave a simple answer so I thought the conversation was over. But when he was on his way to the bathroom. He stopped and explained an answer to my question. There’s also one time, he asked us if we want some bento box. Me and my other co worker said yes. He gave one each to my other co workers but he gave me two. Lastly, it was my birthday last week. He greeted me three times that day, but when it was my co worker’s birthday after a few days. He didn’t greet her. However, on the day of my birthday, I messaged him privately to say thank you for his greetings but he only seenzoned me. I also send a follow request at IG and he doesn’t accept it.
So my dilemma right now is I’m confused whether he likes me too or not? Can someone please give an advice? 🥺🥺🥺