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[Mouldy47]

I have been in a relationship for 25yrs and his told me that his not sure that his future is with me anymore

So sorry @Mouldy47 that sounds awful. What was the lead up to this? Anyone else involved?

So sorry 😔. What is the background? Do you suspect an affair? Offering a handhold

That's awful for you OP after so many years together.
Did this come totally unexpectedly or have you been having some problems in your relationship?

Haven't used this site b4 unsure on how to reply tbh.

I don't suspect an affair. 6 mths ago he stopped wearing his ring stopped saying he loves me and stop buying me flowers very rarely msgs me back by text says his busy but will post on others Facebook pages. He says he wants me to take the lead but it's soo hard trying to be positive when someone tells u that u have no personality and spark anymore and nees to communicate more then when I do talk he says it's too deep and can't go there.

I'm sorry @Mouldy47 but I suspect your dp has got someone else.
Is he rewriting your relationship, he never really loved you, you weren't happy together, he's depressed and needs space.
If so he's probably cheating.

Yes I'm afraid I agree with pp that it sounds as though he has somebody else. All the signs are there.

He has gone about things in such an obvious way it sounds as though he wanted you to be the one who ended the relationship.

Do you have children OP?