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Abuse but ?

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ThatWittyNewt · 13/08/2024 22:19

I'm near 70. I've experienced mh dv and abuse all my life. I've received assessment for cptsd
My current relationship of 25 years has many elements of abuse, stealing, lying, dv, etc. I have struggled and want to leave but I can't seem to do it. I have left and returned. I don't trust anyone
I'm perpetually frustrated and feel agitated, controlled
What is stopping me. Why can't I follow through

OP posts:
XChrome · 14/08/2024 07:16

Google trauma bonding. It is common in long term abusive relationships (the norm, actually) and makes it difficult to break away.
But break away you must, no matter how hard it is.
Contact the domestic violence support centre in your area. They will guide you through this.

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