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All my fault

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Hippychickbbbb · 12/08/2024 23:48

I must be a doormat he’s blaming me for our marriage break down! Caused I show my emotions I raised my voice in distress ,not all the time! I’ve been the one suffering he doesn’t care he says he can’t stand me he spoke to me like a child when he saw me getting distressed he said no and pointed his finger at me.

He said it’s all down to me I say my feelings I’ve tried really hard to not show my emotions but I’ve always been an emotional person he knows that. I feel socially isolated I rarely see my one friend or my mum I said I loved him he said I was being manipulative I had tears in my eyes.i just want to feel loved he’s a great dad but shit husband but it’s all on me! I said I was a nice person he said about moving out because I said that he’s filed for divorce but said he would reconsider if I change my behaviour!? Help

OP posts:
XChrome · 13/08/2024 04:04

He's not a great dad since he treats the mother if his children so badly.
Cut your losses. He's an asshole and isn't worth fighting for.

NaivePauline · 13/08/2024 04:31

Just stop trying to communicate with him, you can't reason with an abusive wanker.

You will get nowhere.

Cut him dead you will not get the emotional support you crave from him.
Time to let it go.

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