Heartbroken and struggling

[Missytay09]

Hello I am new here I am going threw a breakup and I'm really struggling to cope 😭 I feel so alone

Hello, just remember you are not alone ive split from my bf last week been together 5 years. Best thing I find is getting out for fresh air and seeing my family and just keep yourself busy. It is hard I understand but you will get through it. X

Thank you it was the way it ended and just all sudden no contact it's killing me

@Missytay09 was the relationship bad? As mine was. Do you have children? Honestly stay strong I know its bloody hard I had a good cry this morning and feel so let down by him. Try and make some plans like taking up a hobby or going to see some ducks. I find it helps with my mental health. Please stay strong.

@Missytay09 how long was you together?

He planned it with his friends he used me before going to uni
He was crying asking me to call him and that he needs me then he literally just blocked me on everything
He was always the one wanting to talk all time we would fall asleep on phone together the lot

A while we had such a deep connection then all sudden this
I spoke to his mate and he said he needs to focus on him self and they made him see this ain't what he needs
The distance is too much and uni will ruin it
Yet he was the one saying he will make it work etc

Are you in your 20s? Please, be assured we all have been there. The 20s break ups are always very intensely painful ( mine ones were).....and then I stopped dating in my country and migrated. And due to age and experience , grew boundaries and spine and bones and put on a list all I need a man to be and slapped it on a dating site, giving a shit they will ridicule me.

I met a man two later, joined him in his flat 2 months later, married him 2 years later and few years short of, we are together now more 12 years

No I'm 34

@Missytay09 just let him block you, give him the space he needs if he wants to talk to you he will reach out to you.

But he blocked after telling me he loves me then I find out it was all planned the whole time it's cruel he blocked me so I can't contact
I could never just cut someone out like this it's cruel