Apologies for ALL of this typing , just looking for a bit of advice with my 4yr olds dad as it’s all really stressing me out . So I’m just going to give you a bit of background about us . So when my daughter was born I had to go into a mother and baby unit to be assessed for a few months with her as I stayed in an abusive relationship with her dad before I got pregnant and when I mean abusive I mean very bad . Police were called constantly also I was 18 at the time . He was in the unit with me but ended up getting kicked out so I had to be assessed on my own as they were going to take her into care because of him but I passed the assessment unit and got my own temporary place . During that night he would only ask about my daughter on Christmas or birthdays didn’t bother with all throughout the year .
A week or so ago I was in a tight spot and thought he doesn’t or hasn’t paid any child support let me try ask him if he’s got anything but he didn’t so I spoke to him about daughter being diagnosed with autism and I agreed to him seeing her , until his girlfriend went to message my boyfriend too say I am meeting daughters dad for a shag because he called me darling in one message . Now I can’t be asked for drama , I didn’t end up meeting him to be honest . He kept saying his girlfriend is very jealous of me and my daughter and she’s the one who’s been stopping him from seeing her .
Because I didn’t meet him with my daughter he then got nasty and switched it around and said I’m the one who’s stopping him see his daughter etc etc . He now keeps messaging everyday to say how is (daughter) When can I see her ? Just every day now and I don’t even feel to meet him or speak to him now . Just don’t know what to do and all my mind keeps thinking is am I being reasonable or ?🙁 I don’t want my daughter being hurt with inconsistency or anything else . Not sure if I missed anything out but tried to type much as I could , it’s just all sending me crazy