My partner is one of those people who is always wound up about something. Whether it's the news, politics, his family, job, strangers in public.. He has always been this way but lately I am really struggling. He walks around in a horrific mood because he says his job is terrible (just like the last job) and is talking about being one step away from hitting someone. He will then start ranting about stuff on the news for no reason and I mostly switch off from it. His frustrations are sometimes towards me but mostly external however I still feel really impacted by having someone rant constantly. I feel like I'm waiting for any small thing to set him off.
Recently I have been feeling overwhelming anxiety and also wondering if I am depressed. I don't enjoy life as much as I used to and don't look forward to birthdays, meals out etc where I used to be someone who always got really excited about stuff. I also feel like I look grey and tired and struggling to have any motivation at weekends to clean house etc. however my work is going good and I actually enjoy going to the office and socialising. I noticed the other day that my anxiety had gone away having been terrible in the morning but better after a day at work until I got ready to go home. Can't really complain about most things in life otherwise (friends family etc). Not trying to put blame solely on to my partner but do you reckon it would be enough to cause depression/anxiety in a person, living in an environment like this? Or could I just be having mental health issues and therefore being less patient?