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I dunno

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Violetdevil · 04/08/2024 09:49

Hi all,
Don't really know why I'm posting but I just feel lonely and that my husband doesn't realise the extent of my unhappiness.
He is waiting on a diagnosis of autism, highly probable, and has zero consideration for me.
As he is getting older, it's getting worse. I talk to him and he doesn't listen. I was explaining about a Dr appt I had this week regarding early menopause and two separate occasions I tried to talk with him and both times he just zoned out on his phone. If we argue, he acts like a teenager, and just hhmm at everything I say and walks away. I do everything with regards to parenting and I'm finding I'm becoming resentful. It all boils up, we talk about it it gets better for a while and then the cycle starts again.
People think he's such a lovely guy, and he is, but I'm becoming more and more emotionally detached.
If you got this far, thanks for reading

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MapleTreeValley · 04/08/2024 09:50

Do you want to stay in this relationship OP? You don't sound happy.

Violetdevil · 04/08/2024 10:22

When it's good, it's great. I keep questioning whether I should wait to see if he gets a diagnosis, which would explain a lot of things he does and how he deals with things. There are some aspects then that I beyond his control and we can, hopefully l, work on them with a better understanding (if that makes sense)

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