Well not major one's but Dh says it might be worth sending him a message or something (via MySpace as I haven't actually spoken to him in over 6 years!!).
Ok here's the story: (nutshell jobby, might have to fill in any gaps as and when Q's are asked!):
I was 17 when we got together in college, didn't plan on having a very long relationship (was told that, as I wanted to lose my virginity, fat guys have small willies= it hurts less I know tragic reason for going out with someone!!) ended up in a year and half relationship with the morbidly obese git as he constantly cried suicide threats at me whenever I tried to dump him (lots of random crap in between, attention seeking lies and a spot of assault that was never cleared up as to whether it was intentional or an accident but you get the gist right?!).
So, at 19 I legged it 100 miles that way >>> and, after 2 weeks, he got the hint, phoned me and dumped me, problem solved! Couldn't be happier!
Got together with DH upon my return, got married after 3 years, had DD1, and now DD2.
All's fine over here, but come across an old friend and am told that he'd heard some rather interesting things about me over the past couple of years (but the friend doesn't want to tell tales, and doesn't really believe it anyway, but thinks that it might be worth looking into as it could "sully my good reputation" (I didn't know I had such a good reputation but there you go!! )
I'm thinking it could just be the same old attention seeking BS or he could've made up some real nasty stuff (he used to make stuff up about his own family! but when you're that young you'd rather believe the intense stuff than the mundane truth!)
Also, I'm not entirely sure that my friend has heard this from my ex or whether it's the sort of thing that his new friend's might have been influenced into saying (i.e: calling me names etc, insinuating that I'd be the type to sell my body under the cover of darkness and what not) or if it could be the "evil ex girlfriend" syndrome and his new GF has been doing a little dabbling of her own?
Normally I wouldn't bother as I don't indulge in idle gossip, and certainly wouldn't want to allow him back into my life (as he holds no interest and no use that I can see) but DH has now said that maybe I should just ask him what's been said. . . although saying that I'm not even sure if he'd tell me the truth any way. . . but then again he may have grown up a bit, it being 6 years on and all that.
I would like to just leave well alone but people are poking me now!!
Suggestions please?!
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